Return to the personal
And then there's meme
I got a telephone call from Philadelphia last night, from one of the best friends I have that I've not met in person.
Among the things we talked about was Raven. "I've never seen a picture of her," quoth Ms Philadelphia.
"Nor will you any time soon," I said, "Raven is pretty strict about limiting her online exposure. I'm awfully sweet on her and I'd love to show her off to the world, but well, I ain't allowed to."
But it's also true that I am allowed to speak of her in general terms. And it is even more true that I really
Truth to tell, in the abstract there's a lot to be worried about in our relationship. She's not much interested in politics and our tastes in film and literature are pretty different (though we agree on the general awesomeness that was the late, lamented The Sarah Silverman Program), she doesn't like me to sing or prance around in public and there's that 19 year age-gap and the China/Canada cultural divide ...
But on the plus side of the ledger, the truth is we get along like gangbusters. Almost to the point of scariness.
Another reason I've mostly stopped blogging about my personal life is that, Raven aside, I pretty much don't have one. I've gone out socializing (sans Raven or visiting family members in or around hospital) precisely once, back in January or February.
I think Raven (again accepting her 6 week sojourn back "home") has been out twice, possibly three times on non-Geoffrey social expeditions.
And if you think that sounds scary to you, think what it sounds like to us!
But, somehow, we haven't bored one another yet and I at least, find myself more in love with her every day. So I prefer to think of this intense period of togetherness as a kind of compatibility test, one which we have thus far passed with flying colours.
But still, I know I need to get out more. And as soon as my finances improve — even a little — I'm going to try to do just that. There are a couple of Ottawa folks I definitely hope to have return engagaments with, if they're still willing.
But meanwhile, coccooning with my sweetie has been a hermatose pleasure that I can't really complain about.
20. What are your favorite character interactions to write?
You know, I really am finding it difficult to figure this question out.
Is it asking whether I prefer to write fight scenes or love scenes? Explicit sex scenes or or telephone conversations?
How about I say that I like to write character interactions which help lend verisimilitudinous dimensionality in time to the reader's conceptualization of the personae of my characters while also providing a chronological displacement to the narrative flow?
No, seriously. Does anyone else have a better idea what that question means?
21. Do any of your characters have children? How well do you write them?
22. Tell us about one scene between your characters that you've never written or told anyone about before! Serious or not.
23. How long does it usually take you to complete an entire story — from planning to writing to posting (if you post your work)?
24. How willing are you to kill your characters if the plot so demands it? What's the most interesting way you've killed someone?
25. Do any of your characters have pets? Tell us about them.
26. Let's talk art! Do you draw your characters? Do others draw them? Pick one of your OCs and post your favorite picture of him!
27. Along similar lines, do appearances play a big role in your stories? Tell us about them, or if not, how you go about designing your characters.
28. Have you ever written a character with physical or mental disabilities? Describe them, and if there's nothing major to speak of, tell us a few smaller ones.
29. How often do you think about writing? Ever come across something IRL that reminds you of your story/characters?
30. Final question! Tag someone! And tell us what you like about that person as a writer and/or about one of his/her characters!This entry was originally posted at http://ed-rex.dreamwidth.org/16023.html. Comment there using OpenID, or here as per normal.